First thing's first. This isn't going top apply to everyone with an introverted persona. my experience, my thoughts, and, my ideals are on display here. I can't think of a better title sadly. This will also be from a straight introverted polyamorous male perspective. I'm sure these things have eben said before, and honestly this is more of a true journal post on my frustrations with the world as it is now. So, dating is one of the HARDEST things in the world for me, and always has been. Recently I found out that a contributing factor might be Asperger's syndrome, but, since it's not professionally diagnosed I'm not going to use that as an excuse, but it may have something to do about my irrational fear that I am going to outline. It's incredibly hard for me to start a conversation about the subject of a first date. Part of this is definitely due to the fear of rejection that EVERYONE has, but certain people can just turn off. While the rest of the p...
So, I'm coming into this story late. Having just read the condensed version that Gizmondo published I feel that I can weigh in on two things. One, The text of the memo was mostly reasonable. The ending and conclusions were a bit more right slanted then I was expecting to see, but, this brings me to point 2. Kate Conger, in leaving out the graphs and external links, has changed the memo to make it seem politically and emotionally charged and more like a manifesto. While I haven't gone out of my way yet to see all the research and links at the moment, I can't make an assumption on the motivation or research level of the memo, but, with the attempt to provide alternative solutions, I can only assume that he had shown evidence of his points. Kate conger on the other hand starts the article with the sensational headline of "...Here's The Full 10 Page Anti-Diversity Screed...". Kate has already painted the reader into a negative portrait of the writer James Damor...